Don't trust anyone who, after knowing you for all of four hours, tells you that they've never felt so connected to, so moved by, so comfortable with someone as he/she feels with you. It's just not true. Well, they may think it's true. And you are pretty great, but he/she's just looking for something that he/she will find out you can't deliver, and then he/she will discover that you're just a normal person. A really sexy, cool, well-adjusted normal person, but a normal person all the same. And he/she will realize this and stop calling.

Just stop calling.

And his/her desperation to see you again and desire to spend every minute with you will fade away and be replaced with a palpable ambivalence. And then you're the one who ends up getting disappointed.

Avoid that.

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