Chapter 6: Being Honest With Yourself
You know you're better than he is. Make a list of why you're better than he is and keep it accessible at all times. Find the thing about him that you couldn't have ever lived with. Here, let me help with an example from my own life: ![]()
It matters. Those things matter. Everything you feel matters. And loving someone's looks is as important as loving someone's sense of humor. And it's not about some weird, contrived, conventional, stereotypical standard of beauty. It's about being able to say honestly, "I'm the lucky one."
No good relationship is based on feeling better than your partner. But if the partner in that good relationship dumps you for no reason, feel better. You are better and he's the worst.
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